They had a loving marriage and their sex life was great. Here's why they started swinging.

It took us a long time'

The Hoppers eventually figured out what works for them after starting to look for others to sleep with. A date with a woman here, swinging clubs and parties there.

"It took us a long time to find people that we liked," Simon explains. They even started hosting their own events.




There's no naughtiness. It's all, what we'd say, 'above board,' Simon adds. "If you're new, you can come along and find out about the lifestyle. Or you can come along and find people to hook up with at a later date or later that night when our event has ended."

But these relationships don't always have to lead to sex. "Because you're all in the same environment, you're all talking about sex, you're all open about it. So actually, the conversations with people that you meet through this approach become much more interesting or have the possibility to be more interesting than your normal friends."


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